ryanjamesacoustic said: Hey, there’s no right way to do poly, only what’s right for you. :) that’s a hard situation and you seem to be handling with maturity. You’re still figuring out what works for the two of you and now you’re a step closer to figuring it out.
Yeah. Like someone today said that basically you either are poly or you aren’t so there’s no taking a break or reconsidering it. But I just disagree. I do think some people are wired more for poly or monogamy, but when it comes to real relationships things are a lot trickier than that, especially our relationship which was established as a mono relationship but as we have grown we have realized we are both more polyamorous in nature. But making that actually work, that takes a lot of considering and communication and figuring things out and it’s not as easy as just realizing that you’re wired to love multiple people.